Episode 139

Dementia Myth Busters – The Most Common Myths Explained Part 1

In this episode, Lisa breaks down the most widespread myths and misunderstandings surrounding Alzheimer’s disease and dementia. Each myth is paired with the real truth—clearly explained—to help families and caregivers better understand what dementia is, what it isn’t, and how to respond with confidence and compassion.

Key Takeaway:

Understanding the truth behind these myths empowers families, caregivers, and communities to provide better care, plan effectively, and reduce fear and stigma around dementia.

About the Host:

Author Lisa Skinner is a behavioral specialist with expertise in Alzheimer’s disease and related dementia. In her 30+year career working with family members and caregivers, Lisa has taught them how to successfully navigate the many challenges that accompany this heartbreaking disease. Lisa is both a Certified Dementia Practitioner and is also a certified dementia care trainer through the Alzheimer’s Association. She also holds a degree in Human Behavior.

Her latest book, “Truth, Lies & Alzheimer’s – Its Secret Faces” continues Lisa’s quest of working with dementia-related illnesses and teaching families and caregivers how to better understand the daunting challenges of brain disease. Her #1 Best-seller book “Not All Who Wander Need Be Lost,” was written at their urging. As someone who has had eight family members diagnosed with dementia, Lisa Skinner has found her calling in helping others through the struggle so they can have a better-quality relationship with their loved ones through education and through her workshops on counter-intuitive solutions and tools to help people effectively manage the symptoms of brain disease. Lisa Skinner has appeared on many national and regional media broadcasts. Lisa helps explain behaviors caused by dementia, encourages those who feel burdened, and gives practical advice for how to respond.

So many people today are heavily impacted by Alzheimer's disease and related dementia. The Alzheimer's Association and the World Health Organization have projected that the number of people who will develop Alzheimer's disease by the year 2050 worldwide will triple if a treatment or cure is not found. Society is not prepared to care for the projected increase of people who will develop this devastating disease. In her 30 years of working with family members and caregivers who suffer from dementia, Lisa has recognized how little people really understand the complexities of what living with this disease is really like. For Lisa, it starts with knowledge, education, and training.

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Transcript
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Hello everybody. Welcome to a new episode of the

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truth, lies and Alzheimer's show with Lisa Skinner, your host, I

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am going to talk about something that just is very unnerving for

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me, and it's all of the misinformation, the

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disinformation, the myths that have been circling around,

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living with Alzheimer's disease for as long as I've been around,

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and it dates back 50 years to my first experience with my

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grandmother. So that's a long time to be hearing these myths

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that circulate around knowing that they're all untrue. And I

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think what it has ended up doing is really putting blinders on

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the situation for understanding the truth about what people go

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through when they have Alzheimer's disease or related

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dementia. So I'm busting some of those myths today. We're

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actually going to do this in two parts, because there are so many

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of them. So here's what I have to share with you for part one

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of myth busting dementia and Alzheimer's Disease Information.

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First one, memory loss is just a normal part of aging and nothing

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to worry about. Well, the truth is, while aging can bring some

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natural changes in memory, significant or progressive

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memory loss that interferes with daily life is not normal and can

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be a sign of dementia, including Alzheimer's disease. Now other

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disorders such as depression, thyroid issues, medications,

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sleep disorders can also cause memory problems and should be

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evaluated. So why is this misleading? Because it confuses

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age related changes with pathological decline. So the key

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point to this is seek medical evaluation if memory loss

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progresses or if it impacts a person's independence, or if it

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includes significant confusion or difficulty in planning or

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getting lost in familiar places. Another myth, Alzheimer's

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disease is caused by a single gene or is purely genetic? The

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truth, most cases are not directly caused by a single

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gene. There are rare early onset familial forms caused by

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specific genetic mutations. For example, the A, P, P, the PSE

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and one, and the PSE and two. But the majority of cases are

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sporadic and influenced by a combination of genetic risk

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factors like the A, P, O, e4, gene or lifestyle factors and

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environmental factors. So why is this one misleading? Because it

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over simplifies the causes and could also create a situation

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for people where they're feeling undue guilt or fatalism, like

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you know, why should they bother living because they're going to

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get Alzheimer's disease anyway, and that's completely far from

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the truth. The key point to this is genetics can influence risk,

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yes, but lifestyle and vascular health also play a major role in

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determining a person's risk for developing Alzheimer's disease.

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Alzheimer's disease is not fatal or is just an old age brain

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decay. Truth to that, Alzheimer's is a progressive

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neurodegenerative disease that ultimately leads to severe

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cognitive and functional decline and is usually fatal. Well, it

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is fatal complications such as infections, falls and

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malnutrition. Nutrition contribute to the mortality of a

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person. So why is this one misleading? Because it downplays

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the severity and the prognosis of Alzheimer's disease and the

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other brain diseases that cause dementia. There's no going back.

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There's no cure, there's no treatment yet, there's no

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reversing it. So the key point here is early planning and

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symptom management are extremely important. Here's number four,

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only older people get Alzheimer's disease. The truth

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to that matter is the vast majority of cases occur in

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people age 65 or older, but a small percentage occur in people

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under the age of 65 we call that early onset Alzheimer's disease.

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Other forms of dementia can affect younger individuals as

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well. Why is that misleading? It ignores younger onset forms and

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the broader spectrum of dementia. So the key point is

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that early onset forms are rare, but they are very, very real,

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and the risk increases as we age number five, Alzheimer's disease

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progresses. The same for everyone? Well, that is a total

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mistruth. The disease progression varies widely among

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individuals, in rate and in pattern, some have a relatively

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slow decline over years. Others experience faster progression.

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Symptoms can vary in the way of their memory loss, language

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Visio, spatial skills, behavior, all of these can fluctuate

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between people. And why is this misleading? Because a one size

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fits all expectations are completely inaccurate. Key Point

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personalized care plans are very essential and extremely

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valuable. Myth number six, if there's no family history, you

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won't get Alzheimer's disease. That's not true. Family history

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does increase risk, but is not a prerequisite. Most people with

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Alzheimer's disease have no known family history, non

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genetic factors such as age, cardiovascular health, diabetes,

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smoking, exercise and diet significantly influence the risk

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for a person to develop Alzheimer's disease. So why is

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that misleading? Because it ignores non genetic risk

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factors. Key Point, healthy lifestyle reduces risk and can

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delay onset. For many people, there is a cure or a single pill

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that will stop Alzheimer's? No, no, no, no, no. There currently

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is no cure. Some medications can help with symptoms, to

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temporarily and modestly slow the progression down in some

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people, but unfortunately and sadly, they do not halt the

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underlying disease. Research is ongoing with several therapeutic

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approaches under study. It's misleading because it creates

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false hope about a quick fix. And the key point to this myth

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is that treatment focuses on symptom management, quality of

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life and safety. Next one, Alzheimer's disease only affects

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memory while memory problems are prominent. Alzheimer's affects

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multiple cognitive domains, language, reasoning, Visio,

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spatial skills and behavior, behavioral changes, mood

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changes, sleep disturbances and functional impairment are also

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common symptom to dementia,

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and that's misleading because it narrows the expectation of

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symptoms. I have said so many times that the majority of

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people that I have known in the past 30 years really associate

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Alzheimer's disease with short term memory loss and confusion,

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and as I. Have discussed multiple multiple times. It is

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so much more complicated than that, but people fall prey to

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these myths. So the key point is that a comprehensive assessment

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covers cognition, covers function, behavior and daily

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living. The next myth, dementia is just a part of a normal part

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of aging and cannot be prevented. Well, dementia is not

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an inevitable part of aging, though risk does increase with

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age, some risk factors are modifiable, like cardiovascular

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health, obesity, physical activity, smoking, diabetes and

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depression, prevention or delay may be possible through risk

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reducing strategies. That's misleading, because it implies

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that nothing can be done, which is not true, and the key point

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is healthy lifestyle choices can and do influence our risk of

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developing Alzheimer's disease. Next one, if someone has

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dementia, there is nothing you can do to help Well, the truth

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of that matter is that while dementia is progressive, many

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interventions can improve the quality of life, also improve

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safety, mood, Sleep and daily functioning, non pharmacological

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approaches such as cognitive stimulation, physical activity,

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social engagement and structured routines, as well as appropriate

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medical treatment, can all help care planning and caregiver

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support are crucial, and that's misleading, because it implies

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passivity. And the key point to this myth is that there is such

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a thing, and I'm certified in this called person centered care

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and adaptable routines and support services that all matter

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greatly in the dementia world. Next myth, memory tests in

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doctors offices are definitive diagnoses. No The truth is

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routine screening or brief cognitive tests are initial

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tools, but a definitive diagnosis typically requires

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comprehensive assessment, including history, repeated

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testing, medical evaluation, imaging and sometimes genetic or

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laboratory tests. Dementia can be caused by multiple conditions

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needing differential diagnosis, and that's misleading because it

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overstates the decisiveness of initial tests. So what's the key

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point here? The diagnosis is a process, not a single test. Next

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myth medicines for Alzheimer's are addictive or dangerous with

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no benefits whatsoever. Truth to that is that most approved

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medications have been studied for safety and can be beneficial

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for some people in symptom management, especially in the

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early to mid stages. Like all medications, they have potential

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side effects and require medical supervision. They are not

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generally addictive. That's misleading, because it confuses

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side effects with dependence or lack of efficacy. What's the key

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point? Discuss risks and benefits with a clinician and

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tailor it to each individual person next. Dementia only

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affects memory and is not related to other health issues.

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Again, dementia is linked with broader health factors,

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including cardiovascular health, diabetes, obesity, sleep

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disorders, depression, hearing loss and lifestyle factors.

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These things can influence risk progression and overall well

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being. That's misleading, because it isolates cognitive

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symptoms from physical health. So what's the key point here?

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Holistic Health Management is very important next. People with

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dementia cannot learn new things or engage in complex activities.

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That's not true. People with dementia can often learn and

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engage in meaningful activities, especially with tailored

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approaches, with repetition and with support, remaining engaged

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can help quality of life and may slow functional decline. There's

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many studies out there that have shown a correlation to that, and

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that's misleading, because it underestimates a person's

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retained abilities, people just assume they can't do anything

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anymore, and that's not true. So the key to this is to use a

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scent a person centered approach simple, enjoyable activities

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that are focused for each person and provide adequate support to

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their skill level. Next, dementia automatically leads to

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aggressive or violent behavior. Now, most people with dementia

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are not violent. Behavioral and psychological symptoms can

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occur, yes, such as agitation or aggression, but these are often

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due to them being uncomfortable or for environmental reasons or

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unmet needs that cannot be communicated to us, but can be

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managed with proper care strategies. So that's

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misleading, because it stigmatizes people living with

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dementia. I totally agree with that. The key point here is we

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want to assess for triggers that cause these reactions, we want

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to provide calm environments and seek professional strategies

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when behavior changes arise, tests like brain scans can

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diagnose Alzheimer's With 100% accuracy. Well, the truth to

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that is imaging and biomarkers can support a diagnosis and help

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distinguish between types of dementia, but no single test is

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definitive in all cases, it is certainly not with Alzheimer's

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disease, a diagnosis typically combines clinical evaluation,

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imaging labs and sometimes biomarker data. That's

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misleading because it over claims certainty to formulate an

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accurate diagnosis. The point to that is that a diagnosis is

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multimodal and context dependent. Next only older

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people get diagnosed with dementia under 65 never has it.

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Well, don't forget, early onset dementia that's diagnosed before

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the age of 65 does exist. It's very, very real, though less

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common. It can significantly impact families and work and may

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involve different symptom patterns. That's misleading

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because it can often ignore a real minority group. So the key

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point is to seek evaluation when persistent cognitive changes

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occur at any age. Next myth, there's nothing we can do to

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reduce our risk once we notice mild cognitive changes. Well,

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that's not true. Early attention to cardiovascular and metabolic

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health, physical activity, cognitive engagement, sleep and

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social connection, can and does influence progression and

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potentially reduce the risk of rapid decline. Early

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interventions may delay onset of severe symptoms.

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That's misleading because it implies inevitability, and the

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key point is to proactively manage matters at any stage next

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one dementia is contagious or can be transmitted like an

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infection, that one is kind of out there. I have heard this for

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years and years and years, but the truth is that dementia is

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not. Contagious. It is not a neurodegenerative condition with

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biological causes, such as an infectious disease, and of

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course, why is that misleading? Because it spreads and continues

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to spread misunderstandings and stigma, so you don't have to

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worry about getting it from sitting on a toilet seat. As my

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mother used to say, the key point is, education reduces

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stigma and fear. Education is our power. There's no doubt

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about it. The next one. If you have dementia, you should stop

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trying to communicate or interact. No people with

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dementia often benefit from continued social interaction,

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tailored communication strategies and meaningful

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engagement, patience, simple language and supportive cues

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will help maintain connection. That's misleading, because it

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can so easily lead to social withdrawal and isolation, and we

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know for a fact that that can speed up a person's decline. The

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key point is communication, adaptations do enhance quality

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of life. This has been shown to be factual. Couple more. Here's

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one, that dietary supplements can prevent or cure Alzheimer's

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What do you think about that one? Well, I'll tell you, there

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is no conclusive evidence that most supplements prevent or cure

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Alzheimer's disease. Fact, some may be helpful in certain

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contexts, but not universally proven, but they can interact

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with prescription medications. I wonder if you actually knew that

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always consult a clinician before starting any supplement,

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and that is misleading because it promotes unproven cures and

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potential harm. The key point is, evidence based approaches

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are obviously preferred. So discuss anything new with a

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healthcare provider that makes sense. Next one people with

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dementia should never live alone. The truth is, some people

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with dementia can live safely at home with appropriate supports,

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like home safety adaptations, caregiver support, community

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resources, others may require assisted living or memory care,

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but to determine that really, you've got to do individual

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assessments on each person, each case is different. That's

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misleading, because it's overly prescriptive and not person

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centered. I agree with that. The key point, safety plans and

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regular reassessment are key. Next to last, myth that I'm

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going to share with you in part one, caring for someone with

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dementia must be done by a family member. There's no need

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for professional help. The truth is, a combination of formal care

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services that could include home health aides, memory care,

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people, social workers, and informal caregiving often

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provides the best outcomes. Caregiver support reduces

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burnout and improves care quality, and that's misleading,

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because it undervalues professional resources, and in

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my experience, it just perpetuates being in that state

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of reaction if you have not been trained on effective

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communication strategies, and you just, you know, it's like

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being the hamster on the wheel. So that's an important point. So

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what should we do in that situation? Build a care team

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that includes. Health care professionals and community

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services if possible, and the last one, in part one, a busting

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myth, Once diagnosed, there's nothing that can be done, and

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the disease will inevitably worsen quickly. The truth is

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that while dementia is progressive, the trajectory

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varies person to person, symptom management, medical treatment,

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environmental adjustments and caregiver planning can improve

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quality of life and functional independence for much longer

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periods of time in a lot of people. And I think this is a

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really good point for why this is so misleading, and I've seen

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it because it promotes hopelessness. That doesn't have

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to be the case. Key point to this is that early, ongoing

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planning and care optimization can be so beneficial to our

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loved ones and the folks that we are caring for living with

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Alzheimer's disease and dementia. So there are 24 myths.

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So far that I have shared with you. That's a lot of

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misinformation out there, and I still have part two to go over

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with you, which will be published and aired the

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following week. After this one, they're going to go back to

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back. So that concludes the episode today for the truth,

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lies and Alzheimer's show. Again, I'm Lisa Skinner, your

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host, and don't forget if you want to check out our website

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for updated information and new resources, please go to minding

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dementia.com. I hope all of you have a happy and healthy week

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ahead of you, and as always, I will be back next week with part

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two of busting myths about living with Alzheimer's disease

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and dementia. So hope to see you then, bye. Bye.

About the Podcast

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About your host

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Lisa Skinner, CDP, CDT

Author Lisa Skinner is a behavioral specialist with expertise in Alzheimer’s disease and related dementia. In her 30+year career working with family members and caregivers, Lisa has taught them how to successfully navigate the many challenges that accompany this heartbreaking disease. Lisa is both a Certified Dementia Practitioner and is also a certified dementia care trainer through the Alzheimer’s Association. She also holds a degree in Human Behavior.
Her latest book, “Truth, Lies & Alzheimer’s – Its Secret Faces” continues Skinner’s quest of working with dementia-related illnesses and teaching families and caregivers how to better understand the daunting challenges of brain disease. Her #1 Best-selling book “Not All Who Wander Need Be Lost,” was written at their urging. As someone who has had eight family members diagnosed with dementia, Lisa Skinner has found her calling in helping others through the struggle so they can have a better-quality relationship with their loved ones through education, workshops on counter-intuitive solutions to help people effectively manage the symptoms of brain disease. Lisa Skinner has appeared on over 400 national, international media broadcasts. Lisa helps explain behaviors caused by dementia, encourages those who feel burdened, and gives effective advice for how to respond to false beliefs.